Having unique goals, high expectations for yourself, and big dreams can look odd to others that are just living their life day-to-day. Those simply going day-to-day living their life 8-5 and in a full automated routine are referred to as living the "common life".
If you do what is easy...life will be hard. But if you do what is hard life will be easy. Don't take the shortcut in life. Work the extra hours. If you're single and not in a relationship you have no excuse. Don't leave at 5pm and go home to sit on the couch and play v...
There's always going to be someone in your work, your neighborhood, your social circle or your industry who's doing "better" than you. Accept it and be happy for them and be happy with yourself. Don't let their "success" stifle your motivation and drive.
You can change your job, your car, your clothes, your house, your spouse or your friends... But if you don't change your mind you'll constantly have the same experiences, disappointments and regrets. Start tuning out the critics outside and inside (YOU).